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Information on erotic spanking and other punishments, and BDSM. Techniques, safety, theory, instruments, positions, impositions and restrictions, Flogging Instruments Dictionary

 

 

On BDSM

Intro

Context and words

An introduction to the site

Our way

How do we like to play and what is and what isn't in our site

About BDSM

What is BDSM

The acronim's explanation and our game's contents

Safe, sane and consensual

Definition of sane, safe, and consensual, as used in BDSM

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

Is RACK a better definition?

The safe word

The safe word and its use and importance in BDSM games

Is BDSM wrong?

BDSM and psychical illness. Are we sick for enjoying our games?

Can somebody enjoy pain? (1)

Physiological  reasons for enjoying the erotic punishments' pain. Adrenaline & endorphins

Can somebody enjoy pain? (2)

Psychological reasons for enjoying the pain of erotic punishments. Perception of pain

Are we masochists?

Relationship between BDSM and the psychological definitions of Sadism and Masochism

BDSM and sex

Are BDSM games mainly sexual?

Why we are as we are? (1)

A summary of research theories about the origin of the paraphilias. Conclusions, the theories, psychoanalytical, psychodynamic

Why we are as we are? (2)

The love map, psychological, behavioural

Why we are as we are? (3)

Physical, evolutionist, an uncommon one, biochemical, genetic

S, M and us  

The connections among de Sade, von Sacher-Masoch and BDSM

BDSM and the flogging festivals

Would we be so few without religion and psychoanalysis?

Intelligence and BDSM

Is intelligence necessary for enjoying BDSM?

Were we all spanked?

Is intelligence necessary for enjoying BDSM?

 

History

Rousseau, a famous spanko

A fragment of BDSM interest of the Confessions of Jean Jacques Rousseu

Psychopathia sexualis

A couple of cases of masochistic women from the basic book in the area, Krafft-Ebing's Psychipathia Sexualis

de Sade's life

A shot biography on Donatien Alphonse, Marquis de Sade

de Sade's work

Our comments on de Sade's writings

von Sacher-Masoch's life

Short biography of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

von Sacher-Masoch's work

our comments on Masoch's writing.

Domination and submission

About dominants and submissives

Description of our games' basic roles

What’s the “Owner’s Manual”?

An introduction to Ann´s "Owner's manual"

The Owner's manual by Ann

Text part 1 - Intro - Trust - Training

The Owner's manual (2) by Ann

Text part 2 - Limits

The Owner's manual (3)by Ann

Text part 3 - Discipline - The gift

The Owner's manual by Ann

The original in .pdf format

 

The symbols

The BDSM emblem

The symbol for the BDSMers identifying themselves

The Leather Pride Flag

The flag for the BDSMers telling the world their preferences

General

Types of spankings

Different types of spankings, for pleasure or punishment

Are you abused?

A test for checking if you are abused

A love story

A letter from our visitors telling us about their experience in BDSM

 

On safety

Articles on safety of bdsm, with ideas and advise

Safety considerations

Safety considerations for avoiding risks in BDSM games

Safety II: the buttocks

The internal structure of the hips, and how to spank safely

Safety III: flogging

Safety considerations for flogging your partner

Safety III: flogging (cont)

Where to hit

Safety IV: face slapping

Safety considerations for slapping your partner on the face

Safety V: bondage  

Safety considerations for avoiding risks in bondage. General considerations   

Safety V: bondage (2)

Falling, Fainting, Blood circulation and nerves, Cramps and joints pain 

Safety V: bondage (3)

Suspension, Asphyxia: neck, rope, gags, positional, using ropes

Safety V: bondage (4)

Using metal handcuffs, with chains and padlocks, self-bondage

Bruises: what to do

Tips for treating bruises

How the instruments work

Influence of the different characteristics on the severity of the punishment instruments

First aid tips (1)

General

First aid tips (2)

What to hand, hematomas, bruises

First aid tips (3)

Large wounds, small wounds

First aid tips (4)

Small wounds, blisters, burns

Fist aid tips download (.doc)

 

On techniques

Articles on practical areas of BDSM, with ideas and advise

Spanking

Red butts (1)

Spanking technique. What is a spanking. The position

Red butts (2)

The hand, the paddles

Red butts(3)

Where and how to hit. How hard and for how long. After the spanking

Sensual (or sexual) spanking (1)

How to give a sensual or sexual spanking. Before, positioning

Sensual (or sexual) spanking (2)

The spanking, where to spank, using instruments, after

Caning

Six of the best (1)

Caning technique. The cane, cane effects

Six of the best (2)

Position

Six of the best (3)

How to hit

Ritual of the cane (1)

A ritual for caning in the traditional English way. At school

Ritual of the cane (2)

At school (cont), at home, final

Flogging and whipping

The sensations and instruments: (1)

Technical information for using whips, scourges, floggers and straps for BDSM games. Instruments, sensations, floggers

The sensations and instruments:(2)

Scourges, whips, straps

Whip's technique:  (1)

Bottom's and Top's position, grip

Whip's technique:  (2)

Distance, warm up, rhythm

Practicing

How to practice for using whips, scourges, floggers and straps for BDSM games. The forehand stroke.

Where and how to hit

Where and how to hit. Wrapping intentionally

Other strokes

The reverse forhand, flick, punching, and backhand strokes

Fancy strokes

Forehand circle, figure eight, windmill, two handed spinning

Sensual and sexual

How to give a sensual or sexual flogging

Flogging ritual

A flogging ritual

Other techniques

Flogging the feet

How to hit on the soles of the feet (bastinado and falaka)

Hitting on the hands (1)

Chastisement on the hands, a traditional school punishment. The instruments

Hitting on the hands (2)

How was the punishment given?

Hitting on the hands (3)

Positions

Face Slapping

The ways of slapping safely your sub's face

Curing self-abuse

A traditional method of genitals' torture

Curing self-abuse (2)

The traditional punishment. Alternatives

Curing self-abuse (3)

Other irritants.

Curing self-abuse (4)

Variations and positions.

 

Miscellaneous

Punishment ritual

Detailed description of a ritual spanking scene

Weight loss, the BDSM way (1)

Weight loss based on BDSM, with spankings, floggings and other punishments. Commitment, making and enforcing plans

Weight loss, the BDSM way (2)

Punishments, what to punish, after reaching the goal

School uniforms

Description of the possible school uniforms for BDSM punishments

School uniforms: the jumper

Using jumpers as school uniforms

Bound or free

Should a sub be bound for a punishment?

Variations on flogging (1)

Descriptions of flogging variations for making punishments more severe. Delaying, hitting slow, fast to slow, the bastinado, the barrage, the sample

Variations on flogging (2)

The installments, counting, giving rhythm

Variations on flogging (3)

False hopes, the unforgettable

Selecting a punishment

Alternative ways for selecting a punishment

 

On bondage

Articles on bondage as a means of restricting your sub's mobility

The ropes (1)

How to select, care and store ropes for erotic bondage: types and materials

The ropes (2)

 diameter, lengths, rope end protection (whipping), care and maintenance

Knots

The knots

Knots for erotic bondage. Intro. The larks head

The knots

The square knot

The knots 

The bowline 

The knots

The French bowline

The knots

The buntline hitch

The knots

The prusik

The knots

The eight knot

Bindings

Binding:  

Basic ways for binding your submissive in different positions. Intro. Limbs slightly crossed

Binding: crossed

For binding your submissive with crossed limbs

Binding: paralell

For binding your submissive with paralell limbs

Binding: the hobble

How to bind your submissive in a hobble

Binding: to a bar

For binding your submissive's limbs to a bar

Binding: lark's head

For binding your submissive's limbs using a lark's head

Tips

Tips

Some tips for binding: Spread limbs, Standing upright

Spreadeagled

Tying your sub spread eagled, tensed

Arms at back

Tying your sub's arms at the back

Arms at front

Tying your sub's arms at the front

Hobbling

Tying the feet

Tying your sub's feet parallel for the bastinado or falaka

With cable ties

Bondage with cable ties

Using cable ties for bondage

How to bind with cable ties

how to bind

Tips for binding with cable ties

Some ideas

 

On flogging history

Historical articles on some of the most important punishment instruments and techniques

On instruments

The flogging instruments

An account of the most common flogging instruments and their use. The rods

The flogging instruments (2)

The paddles

The birch

Description and history of the birch, the classic flogging instrument

The cane

Description and history of the cane, the English school's instrument of punishment

The cat o'nine tails I

Description and history of the cat o' nine tails, the Navy whip

The cat o'nine tails II

Description and history of the cat o' nine tails, as an Army and Judicial corporal punishment instrument

The gaucho whips

The whips used by the gaucho, the horseman of the pampas: rebenque, talero, arreador, lagarto

The knout

Description and history of the knout, the famous Russian whip

The martinet

The traditional French instrument for domestic punishments

The paddle

The favorite spanking instrument of the US

The pizzle

A traditional whip made from a bull penis

The sjambok

Description of the sjambock, the South African whip

The tawse

Description and history of the tawse, the famous Scottish strap

On Corporal Punishment

Bastinado and falaka

Description of the Eastern punishments for feet torture: bastinado and falaka

Floggings in Roma

The Roman whips. The ferula, scutica and flagrum and whippings in Ancient Roma

Wippings in England

The whip in the judicial punishments in England

How many?

How many lashes were actually given at school?

How many? (2)

How many lashes were actually given at the army, navy and as judicial punishments?

Flogging or Christmas

The European tradition of flogging kids for Christmas

Flogging Today

Therapeutic floggings

Floggings proposed as a cure for illness

Flogging Festivals (1)

The Czech pomlazka

Flogging Festivals (2)

The Louisiana's Mardi Gras Chase

Flogging Festivals (3)

The Louisiana's Mardi Gras Courir,

THe Sharo/Shadi festival in Nigeria

Flogging Festivals (4)

 Whipping Hamer girls in Ethiopia

 

On real punishments

Section about real punishments received by our visitors as children

At home (Girls)

 Punishments given at home to our girl visitors.

Mónica, doubled up cord on the legs. Andros wife, whicker rod on the buttocks

At home (Girls 2)

Lolita, belt on the buttocks.

Laurita, slipper, rod or belt on the buttocks

At home (Girls 3)

Ingrid, belt on the buttocks.

Cristina, hands on buttocks

At home (Girls 4)

Alejandra, strap on the buttocks.

Girl, kneeling on corn, switch on buttocks

At home (Girls 5)

Shade, kneeling,"vaqueta" on the back and buttocks

Silvia, sanmartin on the wetted buttocks

At home (Girls 6)

Azahara, hand and rod on buttocks. Miranda, hands and belt on buttocks

At home (Girls 7)

Florcita, belt and cable all over

Varsovia, cable and paddle on the buttocks

At home (Girls 8)

Angie, hand, spoon, hairbrush, paddle and strap on the buttocks.

At home (Boys)

Punishments given at home to our visitors when boys.

Peter, cane on the buttocks, hands and legs.

Maximiliano, belt on the buttocks

At home (Boys 2)

Peter, razor strop or switch, on buttocks and legs.

Felipe, hand or sneaker on the buttocks

At home (Boys 3)

Coke, cable, on buttocks and thighs. Greg, sandal or belt on the buttocks and thighs

At home (Boys 4)

Victor, cable or switch, bottom back and legs, kneeling.

Nicolaz, slipper or belt on the buttocks

At home (Boys 5)

Asdrúbal, rubber sandal on the buttocks

Grego, slaps on the face, belt on the back

At home (Boys 6)

Tony, belt on buttocks and legs

Antonio, paddle or vergajo on buttocks

At home (Boys 7)

Jon, slippering on the buttocks

Russian Belt, belt on buttocks

At home (Boys 8)

Daniel, hand, strap or paddle on the buttocks. Sebastian, belt, rod, hand on buttocks

At home (Boys 9)

Rob, kimsacharani (whip) on the buttocks. Miguel, hand, belt or rod on buttocks

At home (Boys 10)

Isidoro, riding crop on the buttocks.

At school (Girls)

Punishments given at school to our visitor girls.

Whitock, ruler on hand, kneeling.

Lolita, paddle on buttocks

At school (Boys)

Punishments given at school to our boy visitors.

Joe,face slapping, washing mouth spanking with ruler.

Colin, gym shoe on buttocks

At school (Boys, 2)

Greg, cane on the buttocks.

Andres, rod on the buttocks

At school (Boys, 3)

VK, non hitting

Jairo, punished by group

At school (Boys, 4)

P-xado, slap on the face, ruler on the fingers

David, ruler on buttocks

At school (Boys, 5)

Spanky Jones, cane on the buttocks

Adrian, a cold bath

At school (Boys, 6)

Fernando, slap on the face, kneeling

 

On other lifestyles

Section about lifestyles related to BDSM: domestic discipline and the Goreans

 

Domestic Discipline

What is Domestic Discipline

Description and comments about domestic discipline

The Spencer Spanking Plan

A summary of the Spencer Spanking Plan

Mónica comments

Our contributor comments on the Spencer Spanking Plan

Domestic Discipline and BDSM

Some comments on the Spencer Spanking Plan

The Spencer Spanking Plan

Dorothy Spencer's 1936 book about her Domestic Discipline Plan

Spencer´s book 1

Spencer´s book 2

Spencer´s book 3

Spencer´s book 4

Spencer´s book 5

Spencer´s book 6

Spencer´s book 7

Spencer´s book 8

Spencer´s book 9

Spencer´s book 10

The Spencer Agreements

The Spencer spanking plan agreements in Word format

For a married woman  (.doc)
For a married man  (.doc)
For a single girl  (.doc)
For a single boy (.doc)

 

Gor and the Goreans

John Norman and Gor

Information about John Norman and his writings on the fictional planet of Gor

About Norman's Gor

Basic information about John Norman fictional planet Go, its history, description and culture

Slavery on Gor

The slavery in Norman's Gor books. How it is and how it differs from DBSM slavery

Slave Punishments (1)

Description of common slave punishments described by John Norman in his Gor novels

Slave Punishments (2)

More slave punishments in the Gor novels

The books and movies

Information on John Norman' series of books on the planet Gor

List of books

A list of all the John Norman's books on the planet Gor

 

Catalogs

Positions for spanking

Foreword

For spanking on the buttocks

On the kees

Bending over

Bending over -2

On a chair

Under the arm or standing, On a table

On an armchair or  couch

On a bed

on a bed -2

on a bed -3

Standing, on the floor, hands back

On a stool or horse, with a low bench, with a ladder

Other possibilities. On a low bench, over the shoulder

Unusual OTK

For flogging on the back

Hanging. Tied to a post.

With a ladder. Unbound

On a chair. On the floor

 

For beating the feet

Falaka

Other falaka

On a table. On the floor. With a ladder

On chairs

On a couch, on a table, on the knees

 

For hitting on the hands

Strap or tawse, cane, ruler

Ferule, tawse, sitting, kneeling

 

Impositions and restrictions

Why impositions are punishments?

Reasons for impositions and restrictions being felt as punishments

Variations for impositions

Variations that can be used for making the impositions a more sever punishment.

For all: time limits, time variations, bathroom restrictions, sleep restrictions, on TV time, heavy limbs, unexpected repetitions.

For positional punishments: arms positioning

Variations for impositions (2)

For positional punishments (cont:) Holding things, balancing things, with a yoke

Variations for impositions (3)

Holding with buttoks, holding ears, with coins, with a pencil

Detention

Detention: a combination of punishments

Positional punishments

Corner time

Positional punishments (2)

Kneeling

Positional punishments (3)

Lying still. Standing still. Standing on one leg. Bending

Positional punishments (4)

Sitting still. Sitting on a doormat. Sitting on air. Finger on the floor.

Positional punishments (5)

The murgha, traditional punishment of India and Pakistan

Positional punishments (6)

Crouching. The table. The tripod

Positional punishments (7)

The yoke.

Physical effort

Walking on her knees. Walking on peas. The chase. The worm

Physical effort (2)

Harvesting. Parading. Squat jump

Physical effort (3)

Forced exercising. Jogging in place. Running around a field. Walking with a backpack.

Physical effort (4)

Riding a pony

Physical effort (5)

Carrying weights. Jumping. Jumping the rope

School type

Writing lines. Writing an essay

School type (2)

Copying from a book. Reading lines. Recitation.

Doggie play

Crawling. Fetch. Dog feeding. Doggie relief. Training your dog. Pushing a ball

Domestic Chores

Cleaning the dishes. Cutting onions. Ironing. Scrubbing the floor. Washing the floor. Cutting the grass

Miscellaneous

The cold water shower. Dousing.  The cold bath. The cold testicles (or breasts)

Miscellaneous (2)

The scold’s bridle. Washing the mouth. Hot mouth. Timeout.

Miscellaneous (2)

Head Wash. Sorting things. Washing feet.

Restrictions

 Using clothing, Using her voice, Using cutlery, Using furniture, Using her hands, Using the house, Eating"

Restrictions (2)

Restricting her movements, Using the bathroom, Sleep deprivation

Restrictions (3)

Time restriction. Personal Hygiene.

 

BDSM Scenes

Role playing (1)

Role playing, Why playing roles? pain, sex, negotiation.

Role playing (2)

Script, staging, dressing up

Variations

Role reversal - Genre reversal

Domestic Discipline

Adult-child. Husband/Wife-wife/husband

Domestic Discipline (2)

Abusive spouse - “battered” spouse. Brother/Sister - sibling. Cousins. Roommates. Babysitter - child.

Domestic Discipline (3)

Tutor (governess) - child. Neighbor - child. Caveman- cavewoman

School

Teacher - pupil. Senior Pupil - fag. Prefect /Head-girl (boy) – pupil.  PE teacher (Personal trainer) – pupil (trainee). The initiation

Neighborhood

Neighbor - child. Store owner (manager, clerk) - child. Store Security officer - shoplifter. Complaints employee – customer. Landlord – tenant. Older kid - younger kid. Friends

Slavery

Field environment. Home environment. BDSM environment. Arabian environment. Roman gladiator - slave. Barbarian - slave

At work

Boss – employee. Master (Mistress) – maid (butler - gardener). Master - forced servant. Farmer - servant. Doctor/ nurse – patient. Doctor –nurse
Therapist - patient

Adventure

Pirate – captive. Indian (Amazon) – captive. Plantation crew – prisoner. Biker – girl (boy)

Adventure (2)

Terrorist – hostage. Caveman (cavewoman) – explorer. Explorer – caveman (cavewoman).

Fiction

Tarzan (Sheena) – Jane (Bob) , Xena – Gabrielle. Batman – Catwoman (Robin)

Military, police, judicial

Captain (boatswain) – sailor. Corporal - soldier. Officer – cadet. Interrogator – prisoner. Soldier – captive. Police – criminal. Police - prostitute

Military, police, judicial (2)

Jailer – prisoner. Executioner - convict
Torturer – tortured.

Religious

Abess - Nun. Confessor - penitent. Conservative Christian – child or wife. Preacher – child. Preacher – Adult
Exorcist – possessed. High priest /Priestess – worshipper.

The underworld (1)

Pimp (madame) – whore (taxi boy). Client - prostitute (taxi-boy). Irate Client –Prostitute (taxi-boy). Client – strip dancer. Winner – prize. Capo mafia – pet

The underworld (2)

Kidnaper – kidnapped. Blackmailer-victim. Home burglar – robbed. Would be robbed - home burglar. Thieve trainer – pickpocket. Photographer – (forced) model

Other environments

Scientist – subject. Trainer – dog. Trainer – Pony. Horse riding trainer – trainee. Stranger- stranger
 

Dictionaries

Flogging instruments Dictionary

Description and photos of the instruments used for flagellation (whipping, flogging, belting, spanking, scourging, you name it). Names are in multiple languages

Intro

About the dictionary

Nomenclature

Words used in the dictionary descriptions

A

Ba

Be-Bu

Ca

Ce-Ch

Ci-Co

Cor

D-Do

Dr-E

Fa-Fle

Flo

G

H

J-K

L

M

N-O

Pa-Pal

Pam-Pe

Pi-Py

Q-R

Sa-Sh

Si-Sn

So-Sw

T-To

Tr-V

U-Z

Statistics

How many words in how many and which languages there are in the dictionary

 

Miscellaneous

Contributors

Credits to our contributors

How to collaborate

Instructions for contributing to our site

Reading guide

A suggested order for reading the site according to your areas of interest

Contact us

Your comments

Our guestbook

Disclaimer

Limits to our responsibility for your use of the information on the site

Links

Our selected friends

Copying from our site

Copyright issues and regulations. About copying from our site

News (Current)

Site statistics, last updates, messages to our visitors

News  (Old)

Same, but older

Search

Search tips

Tips for using our search's advanced features

About me

About the site's webmaster and editor

About the site

A small history of the site

Quoted

Where we had been mentioned or quoted

Technical stuff

Technical details about the site's development

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