Domestic discipline (2)

Abusive Spouse - “battered” spouse

If you like it rough, you could play the “battered wife” or husband. This is “nonconsensual”, meaning the abuser is supposed to have no right for punishing his partner, but will “abuse” him/her. (Of course, the sub must have agreed to participate).

Lots of yelling, the dominant accusing her of cheating, laziness or so, insulting and humiliating the sub, the sub shouting in answer or yelling in pain. A couple of slaps on the face (carefully given), take your belt off, double it up (for being sure that you don’t cut her with the point), and hit on the upper back, buttocks and thighs, pushing her around (carefully).

You can hit the sides of the thighs, but be sure of not hitting the lower back, over the kidneys or up, on the neck or the head. Drive her to the floor (don’t throw her, she could hurt herself if she fells down) and continue beating her there.

 

You could also do the battering with a switch freshly cut from a tree, that must be light as you will hit on the back and other dangerous places.

 

Some rough sex,  "abusive",  could be a good ending for the scene.

Be sure that you are always in control. For the battered person it should feel like an uncontrolled beating. For the top, it must be carefully controlled. This could become a dangerous game if you get carried on.

An actual battering could involve fisting and kicking, but that is absolutely forbidden in a scene (at least in our idea of what is safe and sane).

A woman can do the battering (and it actually happens in real life) if she can overpower the man or if he lets himself being overpowered (many men cannot use force for defending themselves from a woman).

Be sure the bottom does not have a history of abuse, by his or her parents or by a previous partner, because it could bring back damaging memories.

Again, any period and nation you fancy. Spouses were (and still are) battered along all human history, mostly, but not only, the woman by the man.

Brother, sister - sibling

One of them caught the other doing something nasty (masturbating, reading some pervert spanking magazines or browsing on the PC our dirty site) (how disgusting!).

After some negotiation (which could be the best part of the scene, one trying to get out of the hook, asking for mercy and forgiveness, and the other inflexible in the blackmailing) , the culprit accepts to submit to some punishment, for preventing her parents to be told. Any form of domestic punishment can be used, but I would definitely make my sister take it bare bottomed. And again, any time you like.

Cousins

The older cousin was left in charge, and will abuse his/her position for taking revenge on the other for his parents’ spankings. Or the younger discovered the elder’s sins, and blackmail him/her into punishment.

Of course, naughty cousins could play sexually.

Or maybe the cousin in charge is intrigued by BDSM, and wants to experience about how it is that domination thing.

Roommates

You share a room, apartment or house with a friend (usually, partners are of the same sex, so it is ideal for same sex couples, but you can play it anyway).

The punishments, spankings or impositions could be for not paying their part of the rent on time, for untidiness, for not making their part of the domestic chores, for abusing on the use of the bathroom. There could be an older or dominant partner, or for a couple of switches, both can be punished if they not follow the rules.

Contemporary clothes, of course.

Babysitter- child

A sadistic baby-sitter will abuse her authority, making the child kneel or stand at the corner, and spanking him or her at will, with the threat of telling his or her charge’s parents that s/he has been naughty if s/he doesn’t accept the punishment. (Maybe the baby-sitter brought with her a porno magazine or photos, or a box of cigarettes to show the parents, for blackmailing the child. The object for the blackmailing should be adequate for the child’s imaginary age).

Or maybe she is allowed by the child’s parents to chastise him. It could also be a male baby-sitter, if it suits your gender preferences.

It is a modern equivalent of the next, the clothing would be contemporary.

Published: 01/04/06