Restrictions (1)

 

Restrictions

This covers a lot of ground. I’m talking here of losing some privileges or rights. I will list some that I think can have some BDSM value.

 

Using clothing

Do not allow her using some (or all) clothing. Make her go:

• barefoot
• naked from the waist up or down
• naked

for some period, usually long, a day or more. It is especially humiliating (and fun) if she is showing the marks of a punishment on her bare body.

 

Published: 10/03/03

 

Using her voice

• She cannot talk for a period of time, usually long (an afternoon, a full day). As communicating is a human necessity, being unable to talk is hard. If it is for a long time, is easy to forget that you are punished and talk when you need to do it, which will add some additional time,  other punishment, or using duct tape over the mouth. (Two problems: she will have to breathe only through her nose, so she cannot have a cold, and taking it out will be painful and may hurt the skin). She could have to take with herself a notebook and a pencil for communication.
• Making her talk in third person. This is a good way for making her notice how self centered she is. One is not normally aware of how many times says "I".

 

 

Failures could be punished also with the scold’s bridle.

 

Published: 10/03/03

Revised: 08/23/06

 

Using cuttlery

Forbid her the use of forks, knives and spoons. The culprit has to eat with her hands from the plate (the top will cut the meal if needed). If she tries to cheat, tie her hands at her back.

 

Published: 10/03/03

 

Using furniture

The use of chairs, armchairs, bed, table, etc. is forbidden. She will have to seat or kneel (even for the meals) and sleep, on the floor.

 

Published: 10/03/03

 

Using her hands

She cannot use her hands (bind them on the back). Some things can be fetched in her mouth, others no. She will have to eat with her mouth from the plate, or be fed by the top.

 

Published: 10/03/03

 

Using the house

One I love as a top, the woman in the kitchen, barefoot and in a nightgown for a day or two. She cannot leave the kitchen but for using the bathroom (asking for permission first), for doing household chores or for serving you the meals. She will have to eat alone in the kitchen afterwards. (this is not actually a restriction, it is the way all good women should live  ) (Dominant ladies: you don’t need to tell me your feelings about this one… just take revenge by putting your husband there.)

 

She could also be made to sleep at the kitchen.

 

Published: 10/03/03

 

Eating

Be careful with these punishments, as fasting more than one day or keeping an insufficient diet for several days can endanger her health

 

• Jumping one meal, or the desert. But she must seat at the table anyway.
• Restrict the candy, chocolate, or something she enjoys (and, of course, enjoy it yourself in front of her).
• Some time on bread and water is traditional (if she is in good health, and no more than one day, it could be dangerous).

• Eating distasteful things. Her meal could be a combination of mashed squash and potatoes eaten as a puree. Or it could be a thick cereals paste, or overcooked rice (also a paste) or noodles (a sticky mass). All these meals should be lengthily boiled, unsalted, and served cold, with no sauce or dressing. She must eat entirely a generous serving in an allotted time. Drinking will be allowed only after eating, and it could be the leftover water from the delicacies cooking. (You cannot maintain this diet for very long, it is unhealthy). While she is eating her distasteful meal, you could enjoy her favorite meal at her sight.

• Delaying the meal: serve (or make her serve) the meal and let her sit at the table, but don't let her eat it until you finished yours. Let her there, hungry and knowing her meal is getting colder and colder while you eat.

 

Published: 10/03/03

Rev: 06/06/04; 08/23/06